I’m sick to death of dating self help books that tell women that if they want a man to stick around and fall in love with them, don’t sleep with him for 30, 60, 90 days whatever. I’m sick to death of men who freak out and treat women differently after intimacy. Last time I checked it took two people to have sex. If you’re judging her harshly or losing respect for her because she shared something with you that she considered special and you deemed it was too soon and therefore worthless, that she should have been a little smarter about “letting you hit it” then that makes you a misogynist. Plain and simple. I don’t see you judging and losing respect for yourself. She is your equal and you should respect her and her decisions on what she does with her body. Especially when those are the exact same decisions you make for yourself and your body. And if finding a woman who waits for sex is something that is important to you then maybe YOU SHOULD BE WAITING FOR SEX. This “pure” woman that you’re waiting for, if you deserve her then what does she deserve? Oh, I forgot. You’re a man. It’s ok for you to want sex and have it, but it’s not ok for women? The double standard is tired and old. You can’t judge someone else for doing the same things that you do. Actually, you can, it just makes you a hypocritical asshole.